It is a known fact that quite a few women are frustrated in the bedroom. One main reason for this is that a lot of women find it difficult or uncomfortable to open up about sexual needs.
So, if such woman is having sex with a clueless man, chances are she will not be satisfied in the bedroom.
To ensure her satisfaction, these three rules are absolutely important.
Know your way around the clitoris.
No matter what you read or what you see in porn, when it comes to orgasms and women, the clitoris is the queen bee. It’s vital that men know where the clit is, what comprises the clit and how to interact with it. What you see from the outside is just the external bud. The structure also includes two long legs that extend inside the vagina. It is located just above the vaginal opening. It likes to be treated gently at first and generally prefers to be lubricated when played with. And – most important of all – all clits and their owners like to be attended to differently. So be open to her particular needs and desires. The clit is the only human organ created solely for pleasure. So let it do its one job by treating it right.
She will most probably not cum from penetration alone
The act of putting a penis, or anything else for that matter, inside a vagina is not likely to bring about orgasm no matter how long one bangs away. Yes, some women do say they come from vaginal penetration alone. Some have clitorises that are very close to their vaginal openings. Some believe it’s penetration alone that is doing the trick, but in reality it's not. The clitoris is responsible for orgasm and for the majority of women vaginal penetration alone does not pay it enough attention to bring one about. So, focus on that clit and give it the attention it needs.
Listen to her
Hopefully, every woman knows how her equipment works and is happy to share that information. So ask her. Ask her to show you, to tell you, to direct you when things are going in the right direction and when they’re not. It can take some encouraging and it might be hard for some women to share because so many women have been shamed and otherwise discouraged to tell the truth about their bodies and about sex. But take the time to ask and support her sharing and you will be well on your way to being the rock star in bed.
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